How well do you know me? A couples quiz

Answer 10 quick questions about yourself and send the link. Your partner guesses each answer, then you swap and compare scores.

Little Things

Favorites, habits and quirks

Who's playing?

Your answers travel inside the link. Phorb stores nothing, and there's no sign-up.

How the quiz works

  1. 1

    Answer about you

    Ten light questions about habits and quirks. Pick the answer that's true for you.

  2. 2

    Your partner guesses

    Send the link, or sit together and take turns. Your answers stay hidden until they've guessed.

  3. 3

    Swap and compare

    Your partner answers the same ten and you guess theirs. You both see two scores and every answer.

19 decks in the app

Play 4 decks free above, or open 15 more decks of ten questions each in Phorb.

See all 19 decks

  • Little Things · Favorites, habits and quirks

    Which emoji do I overuse?

  • Food & Cravings · Snacks, orders and kitchen habits

    What's my go-to snack at 11 pm?

  • Date Nights · How I like our dates

    What does my 'five minutes away' really mean?

  • Travel Mode · Packing, planes and getaways

    Window or aisle?

  • Throwbacks · Childhood, school and little me

    What was I like as a kid?

  • Night & Morning · Alarms, pillows and bedtime

    How many alarms do I set?

  • Phone Life · Texts, apps and screen habits

    How fast do I reply to texts?

  • Lazy Days · Home, comfort and doing nothing

    What's my perfect lazy day off?

  • Social Life · Parties, friends and group chats

    Where am I at a party?

  • Gifts & Surprises · What I'd love to unwrap

    Which small gift would make my day?

  • Would You Rather · Everyday dilemmas, pick one

    Would I rather always be 10 minutes early or 10 minutes late?

  • What If · Superpowers, magic and wild ideas

    Which superpower would I pick?

  • Us at Home · Who's more likely: home edition

    Who's more likely to leave a cup somewhere random?

  • Out and About · Who's more likely: out in the world

    Who's more likely to know a café owner by name?

  • Pet Peeves · Tiny things that annoy me

    Which sound annoys me most?

  • Songs & Screens · Music, movies and shows

    What do I sing at karaoke?

  • Seasons · Weather, seasons and celebrations

    If I could live in one season forever, which?

  • Our Story · First dates and early days

    What did I notice first about my partner?

  • Flirty · Sweet, romantic, a little cheeky

    What's my go-to flirting move?

Questions

How does the couples quiz work?

You answer ten multiple-choice questions about yourself. Your partner guesses each answer, then answers the same ten about themselves while you guess. Each of you gets a score out of ten and sees every answer next to the guess.

What is a good score?

There's no pass mark. Seven or more out of ten means you know each other's everyday habits well. Under four just means you have more to find out, and the misses make the best conversation.

Can we play if we're long distance?

Yes. Pick Send a link: you answer, send the link in any chat, and your partner plays whenever they have a minute. They send a link back with their guesses and their own answers.

Do you store our answers?

No. The answers travel inside the link, in the part after the # sign, which browsers don't send to a server. Anyone who has the link can see them, so send it only to your partner.

Can friends play it too?

Yes, it works for any two people. The questions are written for couples, though, such as who's more likely to talk to a pet in a baby voice.

How is Guess Me in Phorb different?

In the app, each partner plays on their own iPhone and gets a notification when it's their turn. Nobody sees anything until you've both finished, and every round stays in your history. Phorb runs in 10 languages, and each partner can use their own.

Sources

  1. The Gottman Institute. The Sound Relationship House: Build Love Maps.
  2. Scheibehenne, B., Mata, J., & Todd, P. M. (2011). Older but not wiser: Predicting a partner's preferences gets worse with age. Journal of Consumer Psychology, 21(2), 184–191.
  3. Science News (2010). Getting to not know you.
  4. Aron, A., Norman, C. C., Aron, E. N., McKenna, C., & Heyman, R. E. (2000). Couples' shared participation in novel and arousing activities and experienced relationship quality. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 78(2), 273–284.

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