Free tools for couples

Small, free tools that help you put feelings into words and talk about them. They run in your browser, with no account.

• Feelings WheelTap the feelings wheel to find the exact word for what you feel, see what it means, and get a sentence to tell your partner. Free printable PDF included.Open →
• Check-In Questions for Couples70 relationship check-in questions in 7 themes, from stress to intimacy. Answer 5 at a time on your own or send them to your partner and compare answers.Open →
• Anger IcebergPick the feelings under your anger on an interactive anger iceberg, see what each one needs, and get a sentence to tell your partner. Free printable PDF.Open →
• Love Counter AppFree love counter: enter the day you got together to see your days, months and 100-day date. Phorb's Days Together widget keeps the count on your iPhone.Open →
• How Well Do You Know Me? Free Couples QuizFree couples quiz: answer 10 questions about yourself, send the link and your partner guesses. Then swap and compare both scores, answer by answer. No sign-up.Open →
• Cute Things to Draw for Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend48 cute things to draw for your boyfriend or girlfriend: sweet, funny, long distance and inside-joke ideas, each with a tip to start. Sketch one here.Open →
• Date Night Ideas Generator54 date night ideas for couples at home, out or long distance, each with time, cost and a tip to make it work. Filter by free or an hour or less, then share.Open →
• Anniversary Ideas for Couples48 anniversary ideas for couples, from your first monthiversary and 100 days to year one and beyond, each with time and cost. Filter free ones and share a list.Open →
• Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend48 questions to ask your boyfriend, from light and fun to deep and future plans. Pull one at a time, each with a follow-up that keeps him talking.Open →
• Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend48 questions to ask your girlfriend, for couples past the first dates: fun, her week, her story, us, deep, the future. Each card has a follow-up.Open →
• Love Language Quiz for CouplesA free love language test for couples: 20 quick choices, no email. Send it to your partner, compare your results and see what to try this week.Open →
• Best Couple Widget AppsCompare 5 couple widget apps by moods, needs, days together, doodles and cost. Try Phorb's free iPhone widgets live and see how the others differ.Open →
• Best Long Distance Relationship AppsCompare 6 apps for long distance couples by touch, moods, doodles, daily questions, countdowns and cost. See what each one does well and what it lacks.Open →
• Best Love Counter Apps for CouplesCompare 6 love counter apps by widgets, reminders, photos, cost and pairing. See which ones show the same days together count on both of your phones.Open →
• Best Couples AppsCompare 11 couples apps, from Paired and Lasting to Between and Cozi, by what they help with: talking, feeling close, planning, solving problems and play.Open →